Choose what's important to you. Do away with dishes and start using disposable plastic utensils and disposable plates. All go into trash. Use dishes for special occasions. Going disposable does not make you any less excellent. How about just one load of laundry of really must be washed and clean for tomorrow. Invest in some inexpensive towels wash cloths and daily use stuff that they can sit in the laundry hamper until the weekend.
Having and being able to do it all is a giant Hollywood myth!