I've found in this format "intentions" are hard to discern. I had feeback that previous posts of mine were "b###hy" and never was that my intention.
So when I read your posts and thought double standard because..... you were saying to Deb "TY for recommending the sexy male secretary" which I have to admit sounds like a good idea ;)
So being the curious person I am... I had to ask and appreciate you answering. I find your posts interesting !