Or is it that discretion is the better part of valor - I mean I probably wouldn't rush back into a house where Ralph and Alice were about to have a to-the-moon "discussion" - but, hey, I wasn't there so perhaps there are nuances that escape me.
Thank you, though, for sharing a post Thanksgiving story: most of us can't garner the energy to empty the dishwasher (ok, mine is on the fritz - it's a metaphor).
Janet