We seem to always be in a lock horn conversation with each other. I don't see you that way with most other people. I'm not having that problem with most of the other people on this board. Ergo, since we only seem to be having that problem with each other ....
You see me as going on the attack. I 'hear/read' your posts to me as catty or snotty. Perhaps we're both misreading each other. Perhaps not.
Frankly it's just not worth fighting about.