Q#1 I know you know your wife well, but women don't allways allow men to know their deepest feelings, especially when it would be counter productive .It's hard for me to imagine as much as she loves and respects what you do some days she didn't wish you were an accoutant.
Q#2 Did you ever discuss it after the fact?
Q#3. " I was not a catch" Ohhh you are soo not having me believe that. The only thing the Kiki's care about is that you are breathing.You need to (I am saying this is in a very gentle voice)smack your ownself for that whopper.