wife of a SEAL...In most successful marriages, your spouse has some alike core beliefs and values yet different personalities, usually totally opposite. To be a Navy wife in general is very difficult. Long seperations and low pay means a woman who is career driven or totally independant. Self-confident and I think an optimist. Plus this wife would need to be very patient and NOT a control freak. But in the end, no one really ever chooses who they love...it just happens. So to be married to a SEAL or any other man, you do the best with what you have.
I almost would think the SEAL is the easier of the two. It's alot easier to leave than to be left behind. Give your wife a huge thumbs up from me. As much as I admire you for your achievemments....I think I admire her more. :-)