2. Married to a SEAL? No thanks, I have an American Flag.
My husband is a retired Air Force Officer. It was a good life overall but fate always arranged for him to be TDY whenever or son was sick or anything major happened. Jim never misses the military since retiring about 11 years ago. I am the one who misses the uniforms : ) and I get bored not having to move anymore at times. The military life was hardest on our son I think---some kids adapt better than others. Jim was assigned to the 23rd Air Force (back when they existed) in Special Ops at Hurlburt Field in Forida back during Desert Storm and I was so happy that he was a communications officer and not in the line of fire. His 20 years in service was a walk in the park compared to being a SEAL but it was enough excitement for the two of us.
I really admire all the men and women who serve our country and I thank you for all the sacrifices but it comes at a great personal cost and it is never as romantic as the books and movies portray it. Just my humble opinion.